My dear brothers & sisters

Assalam O Alaikum
First and foremost I praise Allmighty Allah for sparing our lives to witness another blessed day of Youmal Jummah.

In the past week I have recieved two calls from two different brothers who are in the middle of bitter divorces with their wives, and also in some serious problems with criminal charges resulting from thier split up. Prophet Muhamad (uwbp) said that divorce is one of the most hated acts that mankind can do, however it is still allowed. I cautioned brothers and sisters who are divorcing to please take heed and do not let shaitaan lure you to do things that are contrary to Allah's commands and the teachings of our rasool.

Bearing false withness against each other, lies and trumped up charges all because you now hate each other is doing harm to yourselves and to your children who are involved, the only person who benifits from this type of behaviour is the lawyer.Try to settle your differences with the fear that Allah is watching over all of us and we will one day have to answer for every single action that we did hear on this earth.

Many of us who are married , at some point or the other , do go through some difficulty in our marriages but please let's all try to resolve our differences and do not allow small things to to get out of control.
Remember it was not too long ago when we used to send flowers, chocolates and gifts to our sweethearts, not long ago when the wives used to dress up for thier husbands , if I may ask what happen now, are we still doing those romantic things? I know I will hear excuses, we have to take care of the children, we have to take care of the house, we have to look at sports etc etc but the most important thing is to take care of each other.The holy book says that you are a garment to you wife as your wife is a garment unto you.

No matter how old we get try to rekindle our love life , do the small things that will make up the big things and spend quality time with each other. Go out thier grab that rose for your wife,
Sister, put on your best outfit for your husband and insha Allah all our marriages will improve, give love and you will recieve love insha Allah.

I pray that Allah preserve our relationships and I pray that all those who are experiencing difficulties that Allah cause them to have relief.

May all pf you have a blessed jummah and a wonderful week ahead.

With love
Chief

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Sister, put on your best outfit for your husband and insha Allah all our marriages will improve, give love and you will recieve love insha Allah

What about the brothers?

Very touching bro but remember we will be tested. Almighty Allah warned us that do not believe that we will not be tested. We see a number of other problems creeping up and this Ummah just sit back and pretend that all is well. My advice is that we love our spouse, kids, parents, brothers and sisters and all of mankind for the pleasure of Allah. Almighty Allah promised us that if we do our part to him he will take care of the rest. Our holy prophet warned us to stick with the Jammah, stick with the Muslims but we choose to do otherwise. We will be tested with everything and our success will depend on the strength of our Imman .Takwah and Hikmaa.Shaitan will be there at our side until we take our last breath.

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Originally posted by Terry Ishmael:

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Sister, put on your best outfit for your husband and insha Allah all our marriages will improve, give love and you will recieve love insha Allah

What about the brothers?

Terry, The brothers are supposed to be the leaders of their homes, the authority and the one who leads by example. We see the reverse. We will pay the price for disobedience, we see its manifestation right in front of our eyes.

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Originally posted by Terry Ishmael:

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Sister, put on your best outfit for your husband and insha Allah all our marriages will improve, give love and you will recieve love insha Allah

What about the brothers?

Chief what dose this entails ???

heh heh

I opt for taking off the outfit rather than putting it on for several reasons
1. It is cheaper.
2. Could lead to something hot and juicy
3. reminiscent of how eve was dressed before de fall.
4. in case of divorce, she can't claim support for "the plutocratic way in which she is accustomed to being supported". If you gotta divide property in half, half of no dress is enough.

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Originally posted by dara shikoh:
I opt for taking off the outfit rather than putting it on for several reasons
1. It is cheaper.
2. Could lead to something hot and juicy
3. reminiscent of how eve was dressed before de fall.
4. in case of divorce, she can't claim support for "the plutocratic way in which she is accustomed to being supported". If you gotta divide property in half, half of no dress is enough.

look at dis nim-mak-ka-ram fullaman :):) how na dard ?????

Bhai, me still a buss me head fi gulgulla.