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Moderator Location: USA
Registered:: September 22, 2004
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He who has and dishes out the moolah, controls and influences the gathering. . |
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Member Registered:: August 04, 2005
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Better to be Arabized than Christianized... |
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Senior Member Location: Aragorn
Registered:: June 23, 2006
Posts: 11365
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better to beat our wives than not to beat them ...lol |
| <rick>
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If they behave bad, stop beating them and beat them. lol...
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Senior Member Location: Every action is judged by intention - Muhammad
Registered:: April 04, 2005
Posts: 10271
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I don't mean me. See the trend at the masjids. That is why I have iftar at home. :) |
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Senior Member Location: Every action is judged by intention - Muhammad
Registered:: April 04, 2005
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One undesirable does not have to replace another. |
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Senior Member Location: Every action is judged by intention - Muhammad
Registered:: April 04, 2005
Posts: 10271
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That is because you are not interested in learning from him. He is very intelligent and his explanations are very simple if you are prepared to read with your eyes and mind open. |
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Senior Member Location: Every action is judged by intention - Muhammad
Registered:: April 04, 2005
Posts: 10271
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It is not our faith. The trouble is that we were never Christianized but the new preachers wiches us to believe that we were. Trouble is that they are replacing it with something that is not Islam. |
| <rick>
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Is he confirming or denying that you are allowed to beat your wife and can have more than one wife?
He seems to be wriggling around without taking a stance. This is a yes or no answer. |
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Senior Member Location: Every action is judged by intention - Muhammad
Registered:: April 04, 2005
Posts: 10271
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I go to masjid to pray. Stay away from the speaches, lectures and other stuff. Don't care for the food anyway. :) We eat too much as it is. |
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Senior Member Location: Every action is judged by intention - Muhammad
Registered:: April 04, 2005
Posts: 10271
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There are relativity in every aspect of our lives. No black and white answers. And you know it. So give the man the same benefit that you wish to have. |
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Senior Member Location: Aragorn
Registered:: June 23, 2006
Posts: 11365
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anyone who take that verse as a literal meaning will and have to take all other verses just as it is. And if this is the case we have a big problem and evil amongst us. The same with the unreliable hadiths.
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| <rick>
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So what is the meaning?
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Senior Member Location: Every action is judged by intention - Muhammad
Registered:: April 04, 2005
Posts: 10271
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Bai, ress yuh rass. Yuh have tuh put things in their proper perspective. I gaffo let Dara school yuh some more. |
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Senior Member Location: Every action is judged by intention - Muhammad
Registered:: April 04, 2005
Posts: 10271
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Dara already explaned it. Go back and read what he wrote. |
| <rick>
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You mean apples to dates. |
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Senior Member Location: Aragorn
Registered:: June 23, 2006
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Dara cool, I like his approach. You can blame the hadiths for all dysfunctional or debatebale practices within islam. |
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Senior Member Location: Aragorn
Registered:: June 23, 2006
Posts: 11365
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as time progress people were careful on how they translate this verse. The words has gotten milder over the yrs. One cannot take the verse as a literal command. It was never meant to be. Saudi and other folks used the versed to create -- In Saudi and some other countries as Political Islam ... and other individuals used it for their own selfish benefit. If someone disagrees then we have to look at other verses in the quran. Now they cannot apply this theory to this verse and not the others. And if they do they are radicals. |
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Senior Member Location: Aragorn
Registered:: June 23, 2006
Posts: 11365
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its in the quran .... check dara explanation(well said). Folks would put their spin to certain quran verses by using the unreliable cherry picking strong weak hadiths. |
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Moderator Location: USA
Registered:: September 22, 2004
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Moderator Location: USA
Registered:: September 22, 2004
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Moderator Location: USA
Registered:: September 22, 2004
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Senior Member Location: wherever there is good food
Registered:: February 15, 2007
Posts: 12272
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Sorry for my stilted langauge. The word "daraba" means beat. There is no different way to understand it in context. Many people try to find ways of explaining it away...and without proper knowledge of langauge, engage in error. For example, Wadud-Muhsin takes it to mean "reason with them." Her admirable intention is because "daraba mathalan" means that. But the ayah does not have "daraba mathalan".it has the rather transitive verb. My explanation is following Fazlur Rahman's theory of gradualism that the beating was there, and the Quran could not get it |