For a parent to do that..yes Nehru he is one sick person...can't these ppl realise that they are living in a different enviroment and their children will somewhat adopt to certain ways of living other than the one they were brought up ... sad...

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At Aqsa's high school, friends gathered in groups, struggling to come to grips with what happened and lamenting how she had quarrelled with her father to the point that she recently moved out to live with a friend.

Seems to be more in this story other than hijab. I suspect a man is involved.

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Originally posted by Nehru:
Bulbul, You are in La La Land. You are making excuses for a SICK and IGNORANT KILLER!!

Nehru, I am not making excuses for any killer, it would be a bonus for all of us, to atleast know some of the facts of the story, before we jump to concluions... conclusion is often what a reader remembers best...

Terry it could be but does that make it right to kill his own child... parents are there to protect not to destroy...

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Originally posted by Terry Ishmael:

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At Aqsa's high school, friends gathered in groups, struggling to come to grips with what happened and lamenting how she had quarrelled with her father to the point that she recently moved out to live with a friend.

Seems to be more in this story other than hijab. I suspect a man is involved.

Yeah, the usually have quarrels, but I don't see anything about the father getting physical with her at any point.

Not saying killing is warranted.
But peer pressure is what led up to this situation. A lot of young girls are caught up in the white people peer scene and end up taking drugs, sleeping around, etc.
The man must have run mad.

Were clothes behind attack on teenager?
Friends say father disapproved of Western dress

Chris Wattie, National Post
Published: Tuesday, December 11, 2007



16-year-old girl has died after being choked by a man believed to be her father, apparently after a dispute with her family over her refusal to wear the hijab, the Islamic headscarf worn by some Muslim women.

Peel Regional Police arrested a 57-year-old man yesterday morning after receiving a 911 call from a suburban home in Mississauga from a man saying he had killed his daughter.

When police and paramedics arrived at the house they found 16-year-old Asqa Parvez lying on the floor without any vital signs, police said. The victim's 57 year-old father, Muhammad Parvez, was arrested at the scene.

Constable J.P. Valade, a spokesman for Peel police would not give any further details about what transpired inside the large, two-storey home in a well-to-do subdivision.

"We are not getting into the details of her injuries at this time," he said. "We aren't getting into any details about this case. This investigation is really in its infancy: Officers are still canvassing the neighbourhood and talking to family members."

However, early police reports indicated the teenager had been choked and that the attacker was her father. He is scheduled to appear in Brampton court today.

The girl was rushed to Credit Valley Hospital and later transferred to the Hospital for Sick Children, where she succumbed to her injuries last night.

Friends of the teenager, a Grade 11 student at nearby Applewood Heights high school, said they were shocked by the attack on the outgoing, likeable girl, but said she had been threatened by her strict, religious family before.

"She got threatened by her father and her brother," said Dominiquia Holmes-Thompson, who had known Aqsa since they both started high school together.

"He said that if she leaves, he would kill her."

Ebonie Mitchell, 16, another friend of the victim, said the conflict with her father over wearing Islamic dress came to a head at the beginning of this school year. "She just wanted to dress like we do," she said.

"Last year, she wore like the Islamic stuff and everything, the hijab, and this year she's all Western. She just wanted to look like everyone else. And I guess her dad had a problem with that."

Ms. Mitchell said her friend had left home once before, in September, for about two weeks. She returned home, but the fights with her family about what she wore just got worse.

Ms. Holmes-Thompson, 16, said her friend had been arguing with her father for more than a year about the restrictions he imposed on her, including demanding that she wear the hijab at all times.

"She wanted to go out with her friends, hang out and just be like a normal person," she said. "But he was always trying to control her.... He wouldn't let her go out or do anything."

The stricken girl's friends said the fights with her father got so bad that she had left the family home to live with friends about a week ago. "She was going back, but just to get her stuff," said friend Krista Garbutt. "She was scared to go home, but she had to get her clothes and stuff."

Neighbours said as many as 11 people lived in the home, which was sealed off by crime scene tape and surrounded by police cars yesterday, all members of an extended Pakistani family. Const. Valade confirmed that there were other people in the home when the teenager was attacked.

"I didn't really know any of them," said one woman, who would not give her name. "There were a lot of them living in that house, always coming and going. They didn't talk to me, maybe just to say hello once in a while. That's all."

The home where the teen was attacked is the listed address of Muhammad Parvez, a Mississauga cab driver. "He was Muslim and very devout, very observant," said one of his fellow drivers at Mississauga's Blue and White Taxi, who did not want his name used. "He was always stopping to take breaks and pray: three, four times a day."

His eldest son, also named Muhammad, also worked as a cab driver and lived in the family home with his wife and at least one child, the driver said.

Several people inside the home were questioned by police before being allowed to leave.

Neighbours said the family moved in just over a year ago.

http://www.nationalpost.com/story.html?id=159480

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Originally posted by Terry Ishmael:
Not saying killing is warranted.
But peer pressure is what led up to this situation. A lot of young girls are caught up in the white people peer scene and end up taking drugs, sleeping around, etc.
The man must have run mad.

At 57, he mussy run mad foh true.

Father of slain teen in Mississauga, Ont., charged with murder
7 minutes ago

MISSISSAUGA, Ont. - A 57-year-old man from Mississauga, Ont., has been charged with murder after his 16-year-old daughter died overnight.

Aqsa Parvez was rushed to hospital Monday morning in critical condition after a man made a 911 call in which he allegedly said he killed his daughter.

The teenager died in hospital late Monday night.

Peel Regional Police have charged her father, Muhammad Parvez, 57, with murder - a specific degree will be determined later.

He made a brief court appearance Tuesday morning and was remanded in custody pending another court appearance Wednesday.

Aqsa Parvez's friends have said she had been arguing with her devout Muslim family for months over her reluctance to wear a hijab.

http://canadianpress.google.com/article/ALeqM5gZ69ZPoFmzInbz6JTSsbmpCbXo2Q

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Originally posted by Terry Ishmael:
Not saying killing is warranted.
But peer pressure is what led up to this situation. A lot of young girls are caught up in the white people peer scene and end up taking drugs, sleeping around, etc.
The man must have run mad.

And many immigrant parents cannot and does not know how to handle kids when they are under peer pressure.

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Peel Regional Police arrested a 57-year-old man yesterday morning after receiving a 911 call from a suburban home in Mississauga from a man saying he had killed his daughter.

case close...

Thanks julie babes!

now nerhu can take the stand!

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Originally posted by Bulbulee:

now nerhu can take the stand!

IN HIJAB?

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Originally posted by Terry Ishmael:
Not saying killing is warranted.
But peer pressure is what led up to this situation. A lot of young girls are caught up in the white people peer scene and end up taking drugs, sleeping around, etc.
The man must have run mad.

The man need a kick in his butt ..well he gon get that... its the way u bring ur children.. ole fashion parents think their children must be like them...well hello ...and furthermore, to correct u on this is not only white ppl does do drugs and sleep around... its all around u.. don't sterotype..

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Originally posted by Chief:

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Originally posted by Terry Ishmael:
Not saying killing is warranted.
But peer pressure is what led up to this situation. A lot of young girls are caught up in the white people peer scene and end up taking drugs, sleeping around, etc.
The man must have run mad.

And many immigrant parents cannot and does not know how to handle kids when they are under peer pressure.

You know, muslim parents from the middle east got a lot of expectations, knowing that they have suffered a great deal. And if/or you disppoint them. Rass you be prepared.

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Originally posted by Amber:

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Originally posted by Terry Ishmael:
Not saying killing is warranted.
But peer pressure is what led up to this situation. A lot of young girls are caught up in the white people peer scene and end up taking drugs, sleeping around, etc.
The man must have run mad.

The man need a kick in his butt ..well he gon get that... its the way u bring ur children.. ole fashion parents think their children must be like them...well hello ...and furthermore, to correct u on this is not only white ppl does do drugs and sleep around... its all around u.. don't sterotype..

Agreed. They learn it from the white people.

The white kids influence the immigrants to follow their behavior. Then some get dysfunctional and start to shoot up malls.

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Originally posted by Amber:

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Originally posted by Terry Ishmael:
Not saying killing is warranted.
But peer pressure is what led up to this situation. A lot of young girls are caught up in the white people peer scene and end up taking drugs, sleeping around, etc.
The man must have run mad.

The man need a kick in his butt ..well he gon get that... its the way u bring ur children.. ole fashion parents think their children must be like them...well hello ...and furthermore, to correct u on this is not only white ppl does do drugs and sleep around... its all around u.. don't sterotype..

terry want me foh tell yuh, that if yuh wanna mek a point when yuh talk to he..mek umm

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Originally posted by Bulbulee:
You know, muslim parents from the middle east got a lot of expectations, knowing that they have suffered a great deal. And if/or you disppoint them. Rass you be prepared.

THESE VERY PARENTS NEED SOME LASH UP THIER ASS.

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Originally posted by Chief:

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Originally posted by Bulbulee:
You know, muslim parents from the middle east got a lot of expectations, knowing that they have suffered a great deal. And if/or you disppoint them. Rass you be prepared.

THESE VERY PARENTS NEED SOME LASH UP THIER ASS.

Must tell me dat when I become a parent... cause IM PLANNING TO BE VERY a STrICK parent!

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Originally posted by Chief:

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Originally posted by Bulbulee:
You know, muslim parents from the middle east got a lot of expectations, knowing that they have suffered a great deal. And if/or you disppoint them. Rass you be prepared.

THESE VERY PARENTS NEED SOME LASH UP THIER ASS.

Meh carry dem rass back to Guyana...and straighten dem out good

Bulbul, It is not about looking good or scoring points. It is about choosing GOOD over EVIL and knowing RIGHT from WRONG. WE are sometimes too quick to suspect Law Enforcement Officers. Yes, this is a problem in all Socities and in all religions but such acts are sickening and MUST be condemned swiftly by all rational people.

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Originally posted by Bulbulee:
Meh carry dem rass back to Guyana...and straighten dem out good

I know a banna did that with his wife.She used to call police and lock him up so the man took her to Guyana for a vacation, as soon as he reached Guyana the banna worked some serious licks on the woman, he told her to go call the cops now.
Anyway the lady had his green card in her posession and she secretly slipped out off Guyana, the banna had to wait close to 9 mths before he returned, they are now seperated.

His defence team needs to look no further than this board....a lot of people here have already started justifying his barbaric behaviour...stress, culture, drop in temperature, price of gas...any one will suffice.

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Originally posted by Nehru:
Bulbul, It is not about looking good or scoring points. It is about choosing GOOD over EVIL and knowing RIGHT from WRONG. WE are sometimes too quick to suspect Law Enforcement Officers. Yes, this is a problem in all Socities and in all religions but such acts are sickening and MUST be condemned swiftly by all rational people.

Nerhu I wasn't disagreeing with you, I didn't get a chance to browse the internet this morning nor read the news, I was just reflecting on the topic post. I am assuming the man snapped, because of the situation. I agree, the girl is 16, he should just leave her to live her life, then again at 16 he has to take some control of her life, not completely, he has stepped over the bountry! He will go to jail and serve his years! We don't do capital punishment in Canada, he might be better off in jail...

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Originally posted by SORBET:
His defence team needs to look no further than this board....a lot of people here have already started justifying his barbaric behaviour...stress, culture, drop in temperature, price of gas...any one will suffice.

And the prosecution need to come here as well for there are others who have concluded that the Hijab is the cause of death.

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Originally posted by SORBET:
His defence team needs to look no further than this board....a lot of people here have already started justifying his barbaric behaviour...stress, culture, drop in temperature, price of gas...any one will suffice.

you're right

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Originally posted by Chief:

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Originally posted by Bulbulee:
Meh carry dem rass back to Guyana...and straighten dem out good

I know a banna did that with his wife.She used to call police and lock him up so the man took her to Guyana for a vacation, as soon as he reached Guyana the banna worked some serious licks on the woman, he told her to go call the cops now.
Anyway the lady had his green card in her posession and she secretly slipped out off Guyana, the banna had to wait close to 9 mths before he returned, they are now seperated.

Rabid did the same, you sure is not the same stroy

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Originally posted by Bulbulee:
Rabid did the same, you sure is not the same stroy

This was a bannas from west berbice.

Sadness upon sadness. Not only is she gone..but I know that many of these parents who are so ignorantly strong willed later change their mind. I have rec'd calls from as far as England on similar issues. In many cases, I am happy to say I made the parents change. In this case...and I can see him changing his views..there will be no daughter to hug. I normally would give vent to my temper, but can only say that I hope he remains sane. He will suffer like I fervently wish NONE of us EVER have to undergo.