May Allah grant your better half peace...so sorry to hear my brother.

Inna Lillahi wa ina Illahi Rajioon

My heartfelt sympathies bhaiya ASJ
This is extremely sad to hear..
May God give u the strength u need at this moment.

My Sincere Condelences to you and your family

Inna Lillahi wa ina Illahi Rajioon

once again AJ, my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. May Almighty Allah grant her an eternal resting place in Jannah and you and your love ones the courage and strength to cope.

I can only imagine what ASJ’s wife was like was based on his demeanor on this BB…to say that he’s one of the most pleasant posters here is an understatement.

ASJ, I pray that you and your family muster the strength to deal with your loss…remember death is not the end…

If I may take the liberty as Asj has contributed this song, i thought I should share it with him on this sad moment of his life:


(1)
KAHIN DOOR JAB DIN DHAL

Kahin Door Jab Din Dhal Jaye
Somewhere far away,when the day ends..
Sanjh Ki Dulhan Badan Churaye,Chupke Se Aaye
And the dusk glides in slow and quiet like a new bride.
Mere Khayaalon Ke Aangan Mein Koi Sapnon Ke (Deep Jalaaye)2
in the courtyard of my thoughts, someone lights up my dreams

Kahin Door Jab Din Dhal Jaye
Somewhere far away,when the day ends
Sanjh Ki Dulhan Badan Churaye,Chupke Se Aaye
and the dusk glides in, slow and quiet like a new bride.

(Kabhi Yun Hi Jab Hui Bojhal Saansen
At times when my breathing is labored for no particular reason
Bhar Aai Baithe Baithe Jab Yun Hi Aankhen)2
When my eyes would fill with tears,for no reason at all,
Kabhi Machal Ke Pyar Se Chal Ke Chhuye Koi Mujhe Par (Nazar Na Aaye)2
someone stirs and walks up to me with love, touches my heart but i cannot see her.

Kahin Door Jab Din Dhal Jaye
Somewhere far away,when the day ends..
Sanjh Ki Dulhan Badan Churaye,Chupke Se Aaye
and the dusk glides in slow and quiet like a new bride.

Kahin To Yeh Dil Kabhi Mil Nahin Paate
Sometimes inspite of physical closeness, people do not get along
Kahin Pe Nikal Aaye Janmon Ke Naate
Other times two people met and felt that they know each other forever, their relationship is longer than this lifetime
Ghani Thi Uljhan Bairi Apna Man, Apna Hi Hoke Sahe (Dard Paraaye)2
It is indeed a puzzle that the heart that belongs to me, feels others pain and make their troubles mine

Kahin Door Jab Din Dhal Jaye
Somewhere far away,when the day ends..
Sanjh Ki Dulhan Badan Churaye,Chupke Se Aaye
and the dusk glides in, slow and quiet like a new bride.

Dil jaane, mere saare, bhed ye gahare
My hearts knows all my innermost secrets
Ho gae kaise mere, sapane sunahare
How my dreams have become a beautiful golden hue
Ye mere sapane, yahii to hain apane
My dreams, these dreams are all that I have
Mujhase judaa na ho.nge inake ye saaye, inake ye saaye
These dreams will never be taken away from me

Kahin Door Jab Din Dhal Jaye
Somewhere far away,when the day ends
Sanjh Ki Dulhan Badan Churaye,Chupke Se Aaye
and the dusk glides in, slow and quiet like a new bride.

That's an appropriate song you chose there, Rosita. As much as asj loves music, I'm sure this will bring him comfort.

I just came back home, dunno what is what yet. My condolences though to Asj

Inna illahi wa inna illahi rajeoon.

ASJ, for the short time that I have known you on GNI you have always been a respectable and dignified gentleman. I am real sorry to learn about the passing of your beloved wife. May Allah grant her peace and eternal blessings in paradise. May Allah grant you and your children courage, guidance and the will to continue without your loved one.

From my family to yours, we wish you God's Blessings and Peace my brother.

Khoda Hafiz.

Here ASJ Bhaiya..I know how much u love this rendition..
I'm teary-eyed as I dedicate this song for u this since i recall YOU dedicating it for others on gni, who had lost their loved ones ...

MOHAMED RAFI: THE VERSATILE GENIOUS

(30) CHAL UDJA RE PANCHI........................BHABI
http://66.45.233.12/Chal_UdJa_Re_Panchhi_Bhabhi.mp3

Year: :1957
Singer(s) :Mohd Rafi
Lyricist: :Rajinder Krishan
Musician(s): :Chitragupta

chal ud jaaaaaa ree panchheeee,

chal ud jaa re panchhee, ke ab ye des huaa begaanaa
Go, fly away bird, now this country is not yours
chal ud jaa re panchhee,
Go, fly away bird,

bhool jaa ab wo mast hawaa, wo udanaa daalee daalee2
Forget now the breeze, the fluttering from branch to branch
jag kee aankh kaa kaantaa ban gayee chaal teree matawaalee
Your captivating gait has become a thorn in the eyes of the world
(kaun bhalaa us baag ko poochhe,)2 ho naa jisakaa maalee
Who will care of the garden that has no gardener
teree kismat mein likhaa hai, jeete jee mar jaanaa
Your fate has been written to live a lifeless life

chal ud jaa re panchhee, ke ab ye des huaa begaanaa
Go, fly away bird, now this country is not yours
chal ud jaa re panchhee,
Go, fly away bird,

rote hain wo pankh pakheru, saath tere jo khele
In tears are those birds who once played with you
jinake saath lagaaye toone aramaanon ke mele
with whom you have jointly had some wishes
bheegee aakhiyon se hee un kee aaj duwaayen le le
take their blessings today as their eyes are misty
kis ko pataa ab is nagaree mein kab ho teraa aanaa
Who knows now when you will return to this city

chal ud jaa re panchhee, ke ab ye des huaa begaanaa
Go, fly away bird, now this country is not yours
chal ud jaa re panchhee,
Go, fly away bird,

aaa aaaa aaaaa oooo

The above is the recorded version, the full version of the song is below:

Chal Ud Ja Re Panchhi Ke Ab Yeh Desh Hua Begaana
Go, fly away bird, now that this world has become a stranger

Bhool Ja Ab Voh Mast Hava Voh Udna Daaali Daali
Forget now those intoxicating breezes, those flutters from branch to branch
Jag Ki Aankh Ka Kaanta Ban Gayi Chaal Teri Matwali
Your style has become a thorn in the eyes of the world
Kaun Bhala Us Baag Ko Poochhe Ho Na Jiska Maali
Who will ask for that garden that has no gardener
Teri Kismat Mein Likha Hai Jeete Ji Mar Jaana
Your fate has been written to live a lifeless life


Khatam Hue Din Us Daali Ke Jis Par Tera Basera Tha
Gone are the days of that branch on which you were perched
Aaj Yahan Aur Kal Wahan Yeh Jogi Wala Phera Tha
Today here and somewhere else tomorrow,like a devotee, was your movement
Sadaa Raha Hai Is Duniya Mein Kiska Aab-O-Dana
Who, in this world, has always had prestigious food/water
Chal Ud Ja Re Panchhi ...
fly away bird...

Toone Tinka Tinka Chunkar Nagri Ek Basaai
You have collected bit by bit and made a city or/ collected straws and made your nest
Baarish Mein Teri Bheegi Aankhein Dhoop Mein Garmi Khai
In rain your eyes have got wet and suffered the heat of sun
Gham Na Kar Jo Mehnat Tere Koi Kaam Na Aayi
do not grief if your laborious task is not fruitful
Achha Hai Kuchh Le Jaane Se Dekar Hi Kuchh Jaana
It is better to give than to take something away
Chal Ud Ja Re Panchhi ...
Go bird, fly away...

Rote Hain Woh Pankh Pakheru Saath Tere Jo Khele
In tears are those birds who once played with you
Jinke Saath Lagaye Toone Armaanon Ke Mele
with whom you shared so many dreams
Bheegi Ankhiyon Se Hi Unki Aaj Duaen Le Le
with whom you shared so many dreams
Kisko Pata Ab Is Nagri Mein Kab Ho Tera Aana
Who knows now when you will return to this city
Chal Ud Ja Re Panchhi ...
Go bird, fly away....

Trans: Saeed@GNI Forums

INCIDENTALLY THIS SONG WAS ALSO DONE BY TALAT MAHMOOD FOR THE FILM BHABI; RAFI VERSION WAS USED INSTEAD: TALAT VERSION IS JUST AS WELL AS GOOD:

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Sincere condolences to ASJ.... May God grant you and your family the strength and courage you need in this time of sorrow..

'Only the good die young'....

May, my lord Rama, grant peace onto you... - can some one please post: "pinjaray ke panchee"

I am very sadden of this news. My heart felt sympathy goes out to you and your entire family. May God's blessing guide you through these tough times and give you comfort to regain your strength and happiness to live on.

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Farewell our friend, but not goodbye.
Your time has come, your soul must fly.
To dance with angels, find the sun,
but how we'll miss our special one.

She walks among us just a while,
weaved her magic, made us smile.
Her life was so full of light and tears,
we lived it through you, through the years.

The golden days, they went so fast.
The precious times, why can't they last?
So many loved you, did you know?
We were not ready to let you go.

The stars from Heaven are only lent.
A gift from God, that's why they're sent.
We won't forget our dear friend
She filled our lives with so much joy.

Your star will shine now in the sky.
Farewell our friend, but not goodbye.

-- Julie McClelland

ASJ and family - condolences again.. today is probably one of your toughest days... our thoughts and prayers are with you...

quote:

Originally posted by Tie-ga:
May, my lord Rama, grant peace onto you... - can some one please post: "pinjaray ke panchee"

I'm searching for this rendition..
meanwhile i'll
play 1 of ASJ bhai's fave bhajan
chodhe chale aaj hamare Ram Ayodhya

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TESTING

pinjare ke panchhi re By PRADEEP from NAAG MANI

Pinjre ke panchee re
Teraa darad naa jaane koi
Baahar se to khaamosh rahe aur
Bheetar-bheetar royi re, teraa…

Kahnaa sake too apnee kahaanee
Teree bhee panchhee kyaa zindagaanee re
Bidhi ne teree kathaa likhee
Aansoo me kalam duboi, teraa…

Chupke-chupke rone waale
Rakhnaa chhipaake dil ke chhaale re
Ye patthar kaa desh hai pagle
Koyee naa teraa hoi, teraa…


ps..
sorry i can't find the translation..I know we had it on gni along time ago..

maybe Freaky can find i?? pls?

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Asj: no words can compensate the loss of a loved one, especially a spouse; someone that you have shared your life and dreams with.

Please accept my deepest sympathies and may you find peace during these rough times.

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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. May Allah give you strength and faith to carry on. My thoughts and prayers are with you Asj Bhai.

Hindi Song Title: Pinjre Ke Panchhi Re
Hindi Movie/Album Name: Naag Mani
Singer(s): PRADEEP


pinjare ke panchhi re, tera dadr na jaane koe (2)

The bird in the cage, no one knows your pain


kaha na sake tu, apani kahani

You can not say, your story
teri bhi panchhee, kya zindagaani re

Yours also, oh bird, what kind of life you lead
vidhi ne teri katha likhi aansu mein kalam duboe

The Lord wrote your story by dipping the pen in tears
tera dard ...

Your pain

chupake chupake, rone vaale

Silently silently, the crying one
rakhana chhupaake, dil ke chhale re

Keep hidden, the lie of the heart
ye patthar ka desh hain pagale, yahaan koi na tera hoy

This country is of stone, oh crazy one, there is no one of yours
tera dard ...

Your pain

My brother I share your pain and sorrow tonight, your beautiful wife is no longer beside you but she is with the great one above. Allah knows whu she had to go this early in life, cherish the love that you two share and keep in your heart the memories and the happy moments that you both enjoyed. One day you will be reunited, until then love her and carry on with your life, as I am sure she would have wanted you to do. I wish you will call me one night. I will be happy to listen to you.

ASJ: --- We have earned each other's respect and indeed we have interacted as brothers on these forums, even though we have not met each other personally.

My heartfelt thanks to you for your efforts on the Bollywood Talk forum.

I leave for you, at this time as you ache and have many thoughts about your departed love, a reminder of someone that might bring a smile on your face -- my DreamGirl.

Best regards,

Dem_Guy

Myself and Family wishes to convey to all the Wonderful folks on GNI our profound
Thanks and Gratitude for the many outpourings of kind words and support, during these trying times.

The Pain and Sorrows of losing a loved one, as I now found out, can be so overwhelming with emotions that can carry a scar for life if not handled properly.
In psychology we have learn that in situation like this, we need to move from step to step and work on the transformation of our griefs to happiness and gratitude and the love for life.
I am at Step One: The need to recognize that what has happened,is a phase of life which all will experience in time, and unfortunately sometimes more than once, the point is there should be no question of "Why Me"
So my good friends, life goes on to do the thing that one must do, to feel confident and fully capable of dealing with whatever life brings......this will
be my focus for the next few weeks, I pray that I can manage and I know that there are some very good people amongst our community to give that prod and support.

Sometimes I am amazed at our determination to stick together, despite of our infightings and pulling of different ways, it is amazing that we as a community can forget and stick together in crises time of griefs and sorrows

"When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight." ~Kahlil Gibran

The happy times will always re remembered.

ONCE AGAIN OUR PROFOUND THANKS AND GRATTITUDE

asj:
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Asj bhaiya I deeply grieved to learn about the death of your bevee. My deepest condolences to you and your family. My responce was late my absence from GNI. I have been in Berbice for some time. May allah illuminate her qabr with NUR.

Asj, if you don't return soon, I'll